I need someone's advice...

[thetruecoolness]

Re: I need someone's advice...

Well I'm not really sure you were looking for advice, seems you had already made up your mind to be a hermit, and everyone else who liked you be damned. I think you will find the life of solitude quite boring, I know I do . I'm going to be living on my own soon (a welcome change from living with my family, since after 24 years that gets pretty old), but I'm still going to invite people over, and if I get a girlfriend, invite her over to.

I think quite a few people have posted decent advice, and though the Tool song was in relation to religion, it's somewhat relevant here. Personally I think you're being very unfair to her by ignoring her, just start making time for yourself, but still keep time to be with your friends as well.

But I guess to each their own, if you want to be a hermit then so be it. And when you ask for advice realize it's likely not going to be what you wanted to hear, that's why you're asking because you're unsure of your decision.

I still don't see why you can't live alone and still go out with her, not everyone lives with their girlfriend :3.

[Fushigi na Renamon]

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I still don't see why you can't live alone and still go out with her, not everyone lives with their girlfriend :3.

That too. Also, how is it that she would expect to move out and live with you when she's only sixteen? That would be some time down the road if at all, right?

[Seraph]

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Music is flexible TTC.

[American Hero]

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That too. Also, how is it that she would expect to move out and live with you when she's only sixteen? That would be some time down the road if at all, right?

This is a good point. what are you worried about?

[sleepywolf]

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Nevermind,everyone...Can somebody close this topic down?

[American Hero]

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I can't do it.

[Seraph]

Re: I need someone's advice...

Nevermind,everyone...Can somebody close this topic down?

Well, what exactly did you want to hear?

[sleepywolf]

Re: I need someone's advice...

Well, what exactly did you want to hear?

I just wanted to tell somebody...

[Big Rick Cook]

Re: I need someone's advice...

Lone wolf seeking sympathy.

[Seraph]

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Just listen to all the serious advice given. Everyone seems to agree that the right thing to do is end the relationship.

[sleepywolf]

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It's all over now, and we have agreed to stay friends but that's all. I regret not following my instincts from the beginning of this...

[altoecko]

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WAIT, what part of Alabama are you from? Dothan/Eufala region or father North?

[Wavelength]

Re: I need someone's advice...

I felt the same way a few years ago, same age you were, actually. I let the relationship languish too much, and it didn't end well. I learned that the way to hurt someone's feelings is to hide yours.

You need to be quite honest with yourself in situations like this. You either love being with this person, or you don't. If it feels like a chore, and you can honestly explain to yourself why... then you've already taken things too far and you both need to step back. At least, that's the way I feel.

But if it's just nerves because you want to be with someone badly, you can't give into those nerves, you just have to be confident and live to the fullest.

Definitely never end something by text message. Face to face is best, if possible.

Anyway, I'm glad it ended without a falling-out; I really hope you can understand your feelings better for next time.

[Perversion]

Re: I need someone's advice...

Oh, and not like it needs to be mentioned, but you are (were) at risk for getting arrested for statutory rape as well.

[John Mora]

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Oh, and not like it needs to be mentioned, but you are (were) at risk for getting arrested for statutory rape as well.

HAHAHAHAHA

man

this topic was a HOOT