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As much as I would like Pwner to be my vessel, as he seems to be the only one here with a fetish for shooting things, I do not wish to sully my good name by associating with his type. I'll wait until I find a more worthwhile shooter to latch on to.
In the meantime, I'll sit in the corner, contemplating how emasculated and powerless I am.
As much as I would like Pwner to be my vessel, as he seems to be the only one here with a fetish for shooting things, I do not wish to sully my good name by associating with his type. I'll wait until I find a more worthwhile shooter to latch on to.
In the meantime, I'll sit in the corner, contemplating how emasculated and powerless I am.
Then I can push away and act like I don't wanna be held! :3
*swipes paw at people passing by*
Developing a support system.
You have to be willing to ask for help. It doesn't make you weak; it's OK to let people give you what they can.
Be open and honest about what you need.
The benefit of a support system is that your whole network won't be down on the same day. When you really need support, someone will be there.
Expect ups and downs over the following months, but trust that the pain will gradually lessen.
Giving support to a grieving friend.
Be available.
Remember that your friend is in a very different place emotionally.
If you're not sure what to say or do, just ask. Say, "Do you feel like talking about this right now?" If they do, be there for them.
If they don't want to discuss their heartache, don't press the issue. Let them know that you are there for them regardless.
Don't treat your friend like an invalid. Encourage him or her to get out and get busy doing day-to-day activities.
Be supportive, but not smothering.
Recognize that you may need your own support system. Sometimes you can give support, and other times you'll need to receive it. Don't expect yourself to always be the leader.
Watch out for a shift into depression. If you see your friend withdrawing into an emotion fetal position, it's time to intervene.
ill hold the fuzzy kitty i like cats and dogs though too i like them equally they are both fuzzy and warm and fun you know i think people could learn alot from animals we all need to learn to chill and be happy and not be so mean to eachtoher i mean were all human beings living in this big planet we should all get along and spread the love well im gonna go spread the love all over my boyfriend brock later.
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