death of a friendship

[Manji]

anybody been in a realtionship with someone, things don't work out, but you still try to be friends? well, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.

i was going out with this girl for a while(i actually lived with her for about 7 or 8 months) but it turns out we were both young and not ready or suited very well for each other at the time.

so, whatever. people have their issues and after enough time goes by, things that were once a big deal, dissolve into irrelevance. so, i try talking to her again to say hi and see how she's doing, but all she can do is call me names. it makes me feel bad that i can't reconcile with her. it sucks that friendships have to die like that.

[highwind]

Re: death of a friendship

Welcome to growing up!

[Goemon]

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My friend is going out with someone, and they fight and bicker over the littlest things. Yet, they always make up.

Me? I remember liking a girl waaaay back in elementary school--but it was more of a plutonic friendship. I was too young to know the concept of puppy love. Well, one day, we got into a quarrel over something. I don't remember what caused it, but all I know was that our friendship died from that point forward.

They say time heals all wounds, so I'm sure if we meet again at some point, we'll let bygones-be-bygones, I suppose.

[IRC]

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Most of my friendships and relationships just fade away. I can't remember the last time I've talked to any of my high school friends. Of course I know exactly where they're all at if I want to get back in touch though. Everyone's back at home either knocked up or knocking em up.

[Chad]

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My ex-girlfriend kicked me in the nuts (read: Running football kickoff with my little buddies) when I told her that I was dating someone three or so months after the fact.

[Pandable]

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You should have strangled her.

[IRC]

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BTW Goemon are you THE Goemon or just a Goemon?

[Pandable]

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He used to be Kimahri.
He isn't The Great Goemon from the old pav days.
I still am, however, in contact with the old Goemon.

[Maijo]

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Whatever happened to that bloke?

[Goemon]

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BTW Goemon are you THE Goemon or just a Goemon?

Just your friendly neighborhood Goemon.

And there was someone here called "the Great Goemon"?!

......oops.

[DarkwingChuck]

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I didn't know you were Kimahri. It's just now occurring to me that I haven't seen any posts from Kimahri but now I know.

Anyways, I think it's almost impossible for ex's to become friends. It's different when someone is a friend that you dated for a while. If they were friends first and things ended fairly well you can be friends again. But if you were a couple first trying to build a friendship after that ends really doesn't work.

so, i try talking to her again to say hi and see how she's doing, but all she can do is call me names.

That's just mean and bitter. I don't know how things ended between you but she needs to bury the hatchet, for her own good at least. As long as she's that angry she'll be dragging that baggage into ever relationship she has.

[Chad]

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You should have strangled her.

I couldn't get up, forget moving.




I disagree with Chuck, however. I think it's a coin toss.

[DK]

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He isn't The Great Goemon from the old pav days.
I still am, however, in contact with the old Goemon.

Well tell him to come on by sometime!

[Goemon]

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I didn't know you were Kimahri. It's just now occurring to me that I haven't seen any posts from Kimahri but now I know.

Hehe, sorry for the smokescreen, friend.

[IRC]

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Oh.