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    Should I beat this person's ass?

    I've known my friend since 7th grade, and I always known she wasn't the smartest with boys, she even knew that, and she asked me to protect her if she enters a relationship that is bad. Since then I've had to beat down or persude her every horrible BF she has had was bad. Since then I have developed the "Guard Dog" syndrome, in which I seems to obey her wish everytime she asks it. Now in 9th grade this is when the crap starts. Last week this arose from my best friend.

    She is White/Mexican, and very pretty/hot. She is good natured but, she ain't too smart when it comes to boys. My friend Brandon went out with her and gave her a 150$+ bracelet for Valentine's Day. Her old boyfriend, Tyler, got her nothing for her birthday(which was a few days before VD). Later, she dumped my friend Brandon to go back out with her old BF, Tyler, who all he had to do is claim, "Last time we broke up, I felt like killing myself", which was a lie. And he also tried to get me beat up in P.E., when he heard I was gonna beat the living crap outta him for takin advantage of her good nature and foolishness.

    And me being the protector of her was gonna beat him for his lies, but she is defending him!? Most of my friends say it's because she don't want him to get really hurt. Others are saying she choose Tyler over me (as in she wants him around more than me.). Whenever I'm about to wind up a punch, it seems that she latches on to him like it will save him and it does. He gives me a smile like he won something, or as if he is safe. He wants her only for her tresure (if you get my drift) and it's really frustrating, that she cant see this. Everytime she needed a shoulder to cry on after a breakup, it was always me. She is one of my best friends, and I can't seem to say no to her, because of the syndrome I mentioned earlier. Should I beat this dude's ass? I see him as being abusive and manipulaive(sp?) in the future, also.
    15
    Yes
    40.00%
    6
    No
    26.67%
    4
    Think this out a little longer
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    5

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    #2
    Re: Should I beat this person's ass?

    Dump the friend, doesn't seem like she's worth it.

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      #3
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      omg unrequited love
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        #4
        Re: Should I beat this person's ass?

        Wow. Kids are retarded these days.

        Here's some advice: Your friends are dumb. Get new friends. Relax and mind your own business.

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          #5
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          Beat his ass Hiro. In math class, Tyler said he was going to nail her, then he called you a fag. I totally herd him.
          So you're a fish out of water...
          Keep swimming.
          What else can you do?

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            #6
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            I would ditch this girl. It sounds like she is beyond help, and nothing you can do will change that.
            Eat Smello.

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              #7
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              oh that tyler
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                #8
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                My young, impressinable friend...You must let go of all of your anger. Forgiveness is the only thing that will save you here. Do not let other people push your buttons. You make yourself vulnerable to thier control and seductions. YOU should be in complete control of you life, not them.

                When some one make's you angry, it means that you simply have LET them effect you. Realize that they are young, and they don't completely understand what they are doing. You can choose to let it all go. You can choose peace. It is as simple as changing the nature of your thoughts. When you think peacefull thoughts, you will find that those around you become influnced by thier own peacefull thoughts.

                I know, that some moments in life can become really intense, and your mind and body instantly fill with emotion. You must have courage in these moments to clear your mind and think of only loving, patient, and peaceful thoughts. If you do this, all of the right answers will naturaly follow.

                You should fight someone ONLY if you are defending yourself or someone else who is in immidate physical danger! Starting fights over social quarrels will only bring you misery and sadness in life.

                As far as this girl "friend" you speak of, you should let her make her own mistakes. she is learning who she is and what she wants in life. You must give her the space to do this. It is okay to watch out for your friends, but in the end, they have to learn from thier own mistakes, which of coarse means getting hurt (emotionally-I dont mean physically).

                UNLESS- you have feelings for her beyond friendship. Then, I say, you should continue to be a real friend, and when the time is right, YOU SHOULD TELL HER YOUR FELLINGS FOR HER. be patient...I promise, an oppertunity will present itself.
                Last edited by Alutra; 02-27-2006, 04:59 PM.
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                  #9
                  Re: Should I beat this person's ass?

                  Beat her.

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                    #10
                    Re: Should I beat this person's ass?

                    You're wasting you time trying to get her to realize what a douche he is. "Love" is blind, deaf, and dumb. Whether it's because he said he'd kill himself or she really thinks he's great, she wants to be with him and that's her problem. If you want to beat him up for something he's done to you go for it, to beat him up on her behalf when she obviously doesn't want you to makes no sense at all. And like everybody else said you'd be better off losing her as a friend at least temporarily and definitely put a stop to this guard dog syndrome. If you keep protecting her from her own stupidity she'll never learn.
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                      #11
                      Re: Should I beat this person's ass?

                      I really won't suggest dropping her as a friend, but she needs to make her own mistakes. I can understand how you feel in this situation and violence will only make it worse. People can be really stubborn, so the more you push the more she will go to him. I hope everything works out for you in the end. Eventually, she will find out how much of a jerk he really is.
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                        #12
                        Re: Should I beat this person's ass?

                        I think your friend sounds like a stupid wench.

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                          #13
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                          Originally posted by Kefka II
                          Beat her.
                          I second this.

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                            #14
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                            This whole thing could be solved with a threesome.
                            Do what you wish

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                              #15
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                              Should I beat this person's ass?
                              you should touch this person's ass.



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