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    #1

    My marriage is on the rocks(as usual)

    Yep, we're finally getting divorced, decided it yesterday morning.

    This all stems to me upgrading our cell phones to unlimited text messaging and she wondered why I did that if I never text anyone...long story short, she thinks Im cheating on her.

    The good thing is we're leaving on mutual terms, and we're getting it non-contested, so we're still working out all the tweaks on it.

    Im actually enjoying all the new-found freedom, no questions, snappy comments...

    she told me 4-5 months ago that she was already planning how she was going to leave.

    Why is she leaving when shes a stay at home mom and have someone who buys her whatever she wants? She says she wants a change from the normal course of life.

    I dont know if we'll get back together, we havent went this far before and she actually thinks Ive been cheating on her, so meh...oh well...yay for freedom!
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    Get away from that crazy *****!
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    Last edited by JPS; 05-27-2008, 11:37 AM.

    Here I come Pav, like the Kool-Aid man barging into a funeral! Oh yeah!
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    #2
    Re: My marriage (finally over)

    Have you guys talked about custody of the kids? I think you should make that a priority instead of making polls here.

    Edit: I don't really blame her for thinking you are cheating, the way you talk about her here and how you hint about how you'd like to bang other girls makes it seem like you really would.
    Last edited by Ms. Porkchop; 05-27-2008, 10:36 AM.

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      #3
      Re: My marriage (finally over)

      Well shes sleeping right now, we're still living together, we're just separated.

      I already said in another thread that shes getting them and Im getting unlimited visitation rights and I can take them out whenever I want.

      [EDIT] I dont really blame her either, but I can talk all I want but I wouldnt do it, its been done to me before and I know how it feels, so no, I wouldnt go as far as to cheat on her.

      I feel like Im going to made into the bad guy in this thread, but oh well, you guys dont know the whole story so no one can really make accurate assumptions about anything except the things based on what I tell you.
      Last edited by JPS; 05-27-2008, 10:40 AM.

      Here I come Pav, like the Kool-Aid man barging into a funeral! Oh yeah!

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        #4
        Re: My marriage (finally over)

        Is it because she found out you're bi now?

        I'd sympathize but doesn't seem like you're unhappy about it. But it's not quite something you'd congratulate either so I'll just say... best wishes?
        I want that Mulan McNugget sauce, Morty!

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          #5
          Re: My marriage (finally over)

          Im not happy nor unhappy about it...after 5 years I dont like the idea of getting a divorce, but shes been telling me for months that shes just hanging around and mooching off me until she saves up the money to leave. (yes she said that word for word)...so Ive became desensitized about her leaving over time because Ive come to expect it at some point.

          And she also said when/if I ever become bi shed want to watch and/or join in, so it has nothing to do with that chuck.
          Last edited by JPS; 05-27-2008, 11:27 AM.

          Here I come Pav, like the Kool-Aid man barging into a funeral! Oh yeah!

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            #6
            Re: My marriage (finally over)

            but shes been telling me for months that shes just hanging around and mooching off me until she saves up the money to leave.
            Why'd you put up with that?



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              #7
              Re: My marriage is on the rocks(as usual)

              Wait....you're married? (You too, JPS?)
              162, representing

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                #8
                Re: My marriage is on the rocks(as usual)

                Originally posted by Valkysas View Post
                Why'd you put up with that?
                I dont know, I think it mainly stems from fear of not seeing my kids everyday, plus she has nowhere to go and would have to stay here.

                Originally posted by 162 View Post
                Wait....you're married? (You too, JPS?)
                Ive been married since 2003

                Here I come Pav, like the Kool-Aid man barging into a funeral! Oh yeah!

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                  #9
                  Re: My marriage is on the rocks(as usual)

                  You got married way too young.

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                    #10
                    Re: My marriage is on the rocks(as usual)

                    I know

                    Also had kids too young, my feeling are kind of mixed on that, because I wish I didn't because I could have got on my feet a lot faster(plus I would have never known them) but then again Im dont regret having them because they gave me the push I needed to try to better myself, plus theyre a whole lot of fun to be around, reminds me of when I was young.

                    Plus its neat to watch them learn stuff, my son is learning how to put words together to form 5-6 word sentences(remember hes 9 months behind on his speech because of hearing problems), and my daughter is starting to form 2-3 word sentences.

                    And Jefferys into video games, so I have someone to play them with now :3
                    Last edited by JPS; 05-27-2008, 02:29 PM.

                    Here I come Pav, like the Kool-Aid man barging into a funeral! Oh yeah!

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                      #11
                      Re: My marriage is on the rocks(as usual)

                      divorce because of a text messaging plan...that's a new one...

                      ...seriously, there's no way of convincing her otherwise that you're not cheating? That's ****ing weak. By now, you probably just want to leave anyway based on the lack of trust.

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                        #12
                        Re: My marriage is on the rocks(as usual)

                        Originally posted by Kire View Post
                        ...seriously, there's no way of convincing her otherwise that you're not cheating? That's ****ing weak. By now, you probably just want to leave anyway based on the lack of trust.
                        Exactly. At this point, why would you wanna STAY?

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                          #13
                          Re: My marriage is on the rocks(as usual)

                          Accusations...ridiculous.

                          I give you props for doing it as long as you did. Marriage is generally a 50/50 shot, and I'm sorry it didn't go in your favor.

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                            #14
                            Re: My marriage is on the rocks(as usual)

                            Best wishes... I just hope that you and your wife take extra careful consideration of how this will impact your children. There are probably some really good books worth at least perusing at various book stores.

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                              #15
                              Re: My marriage is on the rocks(as usual)

                              we stuck it out as long as we could for the kids, but its to the point now where its starting to affect them.

                              Here I come Pav, like the Kool-Aid man barging into a funeral! Oh yeah!

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